5 Signs that Your Older Child May Benefit from Feeding Therapy

Picky Eating

My previous posts on feeding therapy explored why infants and toddlers might need support from a feeding therapist. But, what about the older child? One fourth of my clients are kids over the age of 7! Here are 5 signs that your older child may benefit from feeding therapy:

1.  Your kid never grew out of “picky eating”

In the last post, I mentioned that toddlers are notorious for developing picky eating habits.  But if those habits persist year to year, it can be difficult to find your way to adventurous eating.  A professional who understands the physiological, sensory, oral motor and behavioral aspects of hesitant eating can guide you and your child in feeding therapy.

2. Your kid and the siblings label him/her “the picky eater of the family”.

Kids will most often live up to labels we assign to them: “Oh, he’s our math whiz” or “She’s our little athlete” or “He’s our picky eater”.  A feeding therapist can help “your picky eater” begin to think of him/herself differently and have the confidence to try new foods.

3. My child has food allergies

So only eats certain foods.  One of the challenges that parents encounter when their child has food allergies, is what to offer and how to expand a child’s food preferences while keeping them safe.  Holiday food is another obstacle, as is dining out.  An experienced feeding therapist who works specifically with kids with allergies can offer ideas to keep mealtimes joyful throughout the year.

4. My kid HATES the school cafeteria

Ever been to a crowded school cafeteria?  One of my 7 year old clients called it the “café-FEAR-ia.” It can be overwhelming in so many ways.  Feeding therapists are often welcomed into schools to provide strategies for both the child and the staff so kids can eat a relaxed lunch with their friends and get some important nutrition before academics start that afternoon.

5.My kid wants to eat the same food as his friends

But never learned to like that food.  I had a client who wanted to get a hamburger or pizza with his buddies after football, but grew up in a vegan household and wasn’t exposed to that type of food.  Plus, due to sensory issues as a child, he had a very limited repertoire of food he could tolerate in his mouth without gagging.

His parents were very supportive and wanted him to make his own decisions about a vegan lifestyle.  Feeding therapy not only stopped the gagging, it expanded his taste buds and he became quite the adventurous eater!  He may decide to adopt the vegan lifestyle again someday, but being able to eat with his friends was very important to him at this age.

Likewise, older kids who only eat chicken nuggets or macaroni and cheese limit themselves when the other students at school are hanging out at restaurants  and food-centered events.  One of my clients didn’t want to ask a girl to Prom; not because he was too shy, but because he knew he couldn’t take her to a fancy restaurant and eat without gagging on unfamiliar food.  Eating isn’t just about learning to bite, chew and swallow: It’s a social experience. 

Melanie Potock

Written on 2014/03/05 by:

Melanie Potock

Melanie Potock, MA, CCC-SLP is a certified speech language pathologist, a national speaker on the topic of picky eating, and the author of the award winning parenting book,  Happy Mealtimes with Happy Kids: How to Teach Your Child About the Joy of Food! With over 15 years’ experience treating children with feeding difficulties, Mel’s approach to developing feeding skills includes the fundamentals of parenting in the kitchen, such as how to avoid mealtime debates and creating more joyful mealtimes, even with a hesitant eater. She has also produced the award winning children’s CD Dancing in the Kitchen: Songs that Celebrate the Joy of Food as a tool to keep mealtimes joyful and family centered.  Connect with Melanie at My Munch Bug on facebook and twitter or email her at [email protected].
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  • Melanie Potock

    Thank you for the opportunity to share my love for kids of all ages – infants, toddlers and now, the older child. It’s never too late to start feeding therapy, but the earlier we can begin the work, the better. It’s wonderful organizations like Friendship Circle of Michigan that spread the word that there is support and, it can be a fantastic experience for everyone.

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