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Karen Wang
BY Karen Wang

25 Great Toys For Kids Who Don’t Play With Toys

Does your child play with toys?  If so, this article isn’t for you. You should probably Google “hottest toys of 2012.”

  • Is your child scared of blinking, beeping toys?
  • Is your child unable to understand the rules of most games?
  • Does your child lack interest in typical toys?
  • Is your child delayed when it comes to basic play skills?

If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then keep reading.

All human beings learn through play.  A delay in play skills means a delay in other skills.  Toys are not necessary for play, of course.  All that’s needed are two people interacting in a fun way.  But children’s toys can be useful for engaging the attention of a child with special needs, and even more useful for expanding circles of communication and teaching other developmental skills along the way.

If you’re looking for gifts for a child who doesn’t play with toys, then here’s a list of what’s been most successful with my son and his buddies over the years.

Everyday items

1. Flashlight

My son was frightened by toys with blinking lights when he was little, but he has always enjoyed playing with flashlights.  Turning the flashlight on and off exercises fine motor skills, and provides an opportunity to practice simple words like “on” and “off.”  It also helped my son overcome his phobia of bright lights. The Mini Maglite is the right size for little hands, and it has a blink mode if you need to work on desensitizing to blinking lights.

2. Shark Sweeper

I know a few kids who don’t like toys, but they love vacuums.  The Shark Cordless Sweeper  is motorized but much quieter than a typical vacuum, plus it’s light and easy to maneuver.  There’s a clear plastic cover in front of the bristles, so curious kids can watch it spinning.  We had many hours of fun with this sweeper, and it sure got some good conversations started.  Plus our carpets were super clean.

3. Handheld Massager

Occupational therapists often recommend vibrating toys for children with special needs, and the Ribbit massager by Homedics is great for all ages.

4. Real Tools

Play often starts with imitating adult activities.  A set of garden tools with garden gloves or a real tool kit with a small hammer, screwdriver and file, along with a wood board, are a good way to teach a child to slow down and focus on fine motor activities.  Of course, adult supervision is required at all times with these tools.

A Big Box of Cool Stuff

5. Raw materials

Let’s face it – most kids would rather play with a box than the toy that came inside it anyway. Collect your empty oatmeal canisters, cereal boxes and paper towel tubes.  Help your child tape the pieces together and create something new out of cardboard and Styrofoam.  Here’s a video that shows what happened when a teacher got rid of all of the toys in his classroom and replaced them with raw materials.

6. Box of toiletries

Since kids like to imitate their parents, collect some safe toiletries and allow some messy sensory play in the bathroom: scented lotion, aloe vera gel, baby powder, bandages and gauze, a bar of soap, shaving cream and an old towel to wipe it up when playtime is finished.

7. Box of office supplies

One year, my sister-in-law gave my older son a box of office supplies, all with the logo of his favorite office store.  It took more than a year for him to work through the index cards, tape, pencils, highlighters, sticky notes, a ruler and much, much more.

Sensory Play

8. Disco Ball

Anyone who has visited the Friendship Circle’s Snoezelen knows that the lights and disco balls can be relaxing and entertaining for kids with special needs.  So a small, rotating, multi-color disco ball is a fun addition to the sensory environment at home.

9. Body Sox

A body sock is made of stretchy fabric and has an opening so that a person can step inside. Its purpose is to encourage body awareness and creative movement. For my family, it has been successful on both counts.

10. Exercise Machine

If I had a nickel for every time I had to drag my children away from the exercise machines at the rec center, I’d be able to buy my own elliptical trainer.  A mini-trampoline, child-size treadmill or air walker can get a child’s attention while working toward physical therapy goals.

11. Musical wand

My son had a phobia of bells when he was a toddler, so toys like the musical wand helped him explore metallic sounds while feeling safe and secure in my arms.  The musical wand can be a tool for pretend play as well, especially when paired with a book like “Alice the Fairy” by David Shannon.

12. Punching bag

Instead of trying to stop aggressive behavior cold turkey, which is usually impossible anyway, a punching bag  redirects the aggression in an appropriate manner.

13. IKEA egg seat

This egg-shaped seat was designed for vestibular and proprioceptive sensory needs, plus it’s perfect for playing peek-a-boo.

14. Stomp Rocket

The Stomp Rocket helps work out aggressive energy while teaching a simple science lesson.  My kids never get tired of it.  Sometimes they make their own paper rockets, too.

15. Kazoo

The box said, “If you can hum, you can kazoo.”  So I bought it for $2.  It opens the door to oral-motor skills.

16. Bean bag toss

I have a child who has the urge to throw things ALL THE TIME.  Most toys are not safe for him because of this.  I decided that he may as well improve his aim if he’s going to throw things, and a bean bag toss is safer than a baseball at this point.  The bean bag target can be varied – for example, he can throw the bean bags at cards with sight words or letters of the alphabet.

Attention-grabbing quiet toys

17. Marble run

I’ve never met a kid who didn’t love a marble run.  These toys help with visual tracking, and the best part is the building process with kids.  But they’re not safe for any child who puts toys in his or her mouth.

18. Folk toys

I remember playing with traditional wooden folk toys at my grandparents’ house when I was little.  When I was brainstorming to find toys that would get my son’s attention, I went back to my roots.  Toys like the Jacob’s Ladder and Falling Boy  engaged my son and really made him think about how they work.

19. Magformers

The magnets in this building set are encased in plastic, so there are no small pieces.  The set encourages open-ended play, and it’s a good way to explore the sensory features of magnets.  It’s one of the “quiet toys” that travels with us.

20. Magnetic gyro wheel

Kids can’t take their eyes off this toy, and it’s great for long road trips or kids who just want to watch something spin.

21. Whoopee cushion

Yes, it’s crude and vulgar.  It’s also a quick way to get a speech-delayed kid to talk.  You’ll probably get quite a bit of eye contact, too.  At $1.75, it’s a lot less expensive than an hour of speech therapy!

22. Globe

If your child loves to spin things, get a globe.   It will help with pre-literacy skills and open up new conversations about the world.

23. Hoberman sphere

I used the Hoberman sphere to teach my son the names for the colors and some simple opposite terms like “big” and “small,” “in” and “out.”  It can be hung from the ceiling as a mobile that expands and contracts, but my kids prefer to hold it on the ground.

Introducing Pretend Play

24. Play silks or old scarves

Even children who don’t want to play dress-up like the texture of scarves and play silks.  These are a good way to introduce open-ended play to kids who prefer to stick with a script.

25. Box of hats

Over the years I’ve collected all sorts of hats  for my kids.  Trying on different identities is the first step to pretend play.

Please share your child’s favorite toys in the comments below.

Karen Wang

Written on December 13, 2012 by:

Karen Wang is a Friendship Circle parent. You may have seen her sneaking into the volunteer lounge for ice cream or being pushed into the cheese pit by laughing children. She is a contributing author to the anthology "My Baby Rides the Short Bus: The Unabashedly Human Experience of Raising Kids With Disabilities"
  • Michele Manhire

    I can’t thank you enough for this post. My son Aaron is 8, and fits this description to a ‘T’! It’s been 8 birthdays and 9 Christmases of, “What can we get Aaron??”, with A LOT of “misses” along the way, but a few hits too. How completely rare it is to see in print MY Aaron’s world – just simply not capable of understanding toys for what the rest of the world sees as ‘fun’. You made me feel a lot less alone in this frustrating situation, and for that I am very grateful. I can honestly tell you, I am printing this list, and heading to a couple of stores (some online) that I can get some of these items! Maybe this won’t be such a depressing Christmas (anti-climactic-gift-giving-wise) after all!! =)

  • Laranboggy

    Thank you for reinforcing some of my choices over the past few years and giving me lots of ideas for the next few Christmases .

  • Susan

    YES! My children have outgrown them, but I recognize them and think we owned the complete collection. A couple I can add that were lots of fun: peel & stick shelf liner – peel off the liner a couple of inches and fold the sticky end under to “tape” it to the floor at one end, then unroll and peel as you go until you have a length as long as you like, then fold and anchor the other end. Let your kids run across the sticky side up barefoot to their hearts content. A big roll of clear stretch household packing wrap (like industrial size Cling Wrap) can be found at most stores that have packing supplies/stationery. We used it to wrap the kids up from shoulders to ankles mummy style. This is best done on a soft gym mat or sandbox or outside in soft grass because they WILL fall, but the giggles and hopping and rolling will wear them out and leave them happy.

  • Vera

    Do you have any yarn balls? I bought a giant one (maybe eight inches in diameter) for my classroom but ended up keeping it for my own kids. They’re substantial enough to throw satisfyingly but soft enough to use as a dolly bed. 🙂

  • Michele

    Excellent post! Thank you so much for putting this together. I have been sifting through special needs toy lists to find one that I thought would be most helpful to my followers. This post aligned with our personal experience most closely. I have shared it with multiple groups (general special needs and those specifically for CP) and the feedback has been wonderful.
    -Michele, Founder, CP Daily Living

  • Meagan

    This is a great list. My son loved his egg chair and empty bottles are always a win. He also loves to spin a globe and look at wonder tubes (glitter wands). Wonder tubes are about $6 on Amazon. This year one of his gifts is a gel filled medicine ball 🙂

  • Natalie A.

    Add Magnatiles!

  • All of your suggestions are fantastic! I can not say enough about the hoberman sphere. I just ordered a marble run because I wholeheartedly agree, what kid doesn’t love that?!?! Thank you!


    Thanks for sharing!

  • corndog

    The IKEA egg chair reminds me of my daughter’s favorite chair that I found last Christmas. It is a more inexpensive than the IKEA one. I found it on the Walmart website. I wanted to get another one this year and put it up in the closet in the event of the current one messing up down the road. Much to my dismay, it was sold out online…but was offered in stores this holiday season. 🙂

    This chair is VERY sturdy and has taken a beating over the last year and still works just fine with no signs of dying anytime soon. A big bonus was that it only costs $19.88. 🙂

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  • Carolyn

    So important that we understand our own children, to be able to work out what they need for their own personal development.

  • sensoryandsort

    Great post! I invite you to check out our new toys. We have worked with the special population for over 10 plus years. The games we make are based on techniques that have worked for us.

  • Very Busy Mom

    I’m so glad I found this article! I look after a few special needs kids, my own and a couple in my neighborhood and it’s really hard to find good toys that will help them engage and keep them occupied. Believe it or not I actually get them really excited with a slinky and I got a couple wood tree swings that have really bright colors and fun designs from If you have any other suggestions of things that aren’t toys to help me survive the day please let me know, I’ll be following comments here.

  • Michelle

    My son loves office supplies,paper clips,post it notes etc. He creates his own games and toys. I also hit the free rack at a 2nd hand store close by for cameras,radios and other small items that my son can take apart with screw drivers and hammers. He enjoys finding out whats in side and how things are built 🙂

  • My 12-year-old daughter bought whoopie cushions for all of her nephews a few years ago for Christmas. Never thought about one for her. But these are great ideas. We have tried some of these but I am going to buy some of the others we havent.

  • My son and I (he just turned 2) have a ball having cottonball races. We blow them across the table to see who can make it the furthest. He gets so excited when I hold up his arm and declare him the winner. I like this one because it excercises his oral skills, it is cheap, and there is no mess involved.

  • Barbara

    Very informative post Karen! Thanks for the excellent ideas!

  • amanda charlie

    Children who don’t love to play with toys, these toys are amazing ideas for them to have fun while playing.

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  • Anita Scott

    There is no better kids toy then a box of craft things 🙂 Keep up the awesome work 🙂

  • josephdillion

    Excellent post! Much obliged to you such a great amount of for assembling this. Individuals have been filtering through extraordinary needs toy leans to uncover one that is useful for their young person.

  • Michellene McClain Turner

    I always check Amazon, they even have the big things – the body sock, hammock swing, and the tunnel along with smaller sensory items.

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  • Sskmommy

    Today my Autistic twins were sliding around the floor with spoons under their feet. When I asked them what they were doing, they said “ice skating mom!” I swear these two are way more creative and imaginative that I ever was.

  • Jack

    I read your post and it is really nice. I
    have also a good suggestion for baby toys actually I know borntotoddle they
    have huge collection of toys and puzzles games for your child.

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  • Sassy

    My grandson will play with paper more than toys. he tears the paper into tiny pieces and licks they & puts it on his face.we let him do this & he just laughs. he will be 10 in December and is non-verbale

  • This is a great article thank you. My daughter is never interested in any of the kids toys we buy her but more everyday raw material. She would rather plan with a box full of different sensory items than her pretend play toys.

  • Lorna d’Entremont

    Thanks Karen Wang for another great post! May I please add to your list under SENSORY Play – SentioCHEWS and KidCompanions Chewelry for kids who chew, bite, fidget.

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  • Akshay Paul

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  • Tammy

    This list is excellent for any kid. We aim for useful and interesting, and our kids have naturally moved away from “plastic push a buttom get a ding”.

    I’d add to your list: step stool for helping around the house, small but real cooking tools, and any measuring device you can imagine (tape measure, thermometer, barometer, watch).

    Our kids like the real world, and like learning to be a part of it!

    Thank you 🙂

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  • Holly Welch

    Great Ideas. A very unique way to put together the interest of kids and making it into a toy. These ideas can give a great relief to many parents struggling to understand the best gift for their growing kids and kids with special needs.

  • leos02

    Bummed. My child would not do any if these. Unless there is an iPad or stuffed animals being thrown, she wont do anything except sit there.

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    Thank you for sharing your blog with us. Your post about 25 great toys for kids who don’t play with toys is really very good. Toys are useful for engaging the attention of a child. I will definitely share your blog with my friends.

  • Melody W

    Great suggestions! One option that alot of parents do nowadays is to turn to subscription boxes like CubbyCase ( that helps them curate products for their children. I personally find them great especially if i have no idea what to get!

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  • Aamir

    anyone let me the answer of the following question?

    1) What is the best toys who are ever play with?

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