25 Great Toys For Kids Who Don’t Play With Toys
Does your child play with toys? If so, this article isn’t for you. You should probably Google “hottest toys of 2012.”
- Is your child scared of blinking, beeping toys?
- Is your child unable to understand the rules of most games?
- Does your child lack interest in typical toys?
- Is your child delayed when it comes to basic play skills?
If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then keep reading.
All human beings learn through play. A delay in play skills means a delay in other skills. Toys are not necessary for play, of course. All that’s needed are two people interacting in a fun way. But children’s toys can be useful for engaging the attention of a child with special needs, and even more useful for expanding circles of communication and teaching other developmental skills along the way.
If you’re looking for gifts for a child who doesn’t play with toys, then here’s a list of what’s been most successful with my son and his buddies over the years.
My son was frightened by toys with blinking lights when he was little, but he has always enjoyed playing with flashlights. Turning the flashlight on and off exercises fine motor skills, and provides an opportunity to practice simple words like “on” and “off.” It also helped my son overcome his phobia of bright lights. The Mini Maglite is the right size for little hands, and it has a blink mode if you need to work on desensitizing to blinking lights.
2. Shark Sweeper
I know a few kids who don’t like toys, but they love vacuums. The Shark Cordless Sweeper is motorized but much quieter than a typical vacuum, plus it’s light and easy to maneuver. There’s a clear plastic cover in front of the bristles, so curious kids can watch it spinning. We had many hours of fun with this sweeper, and it sure got some good conversations started. Plus our carpets were super clean.
3. Handheld Massager
Occupational therapists often recommend vibrating toys for children with special needs, and the Ribbit massager by Homedics is great for all ages.
4. Real Tools
Play often starts with imitating adult activities. A set of garden tools with garden gloves or a real tool kit with a small hammer, screwdriver and file, along with a wood board, are a good way to teach a child to slow down and focus on fine motor activities. Of course, adult supervision is required at all times with these tools.
A Big Box of Cool Stuff
5. Raw materials
Let’s face it – most kids would rather play with a box than the toy that came inside it anyway. Collect your empty oatmeal canisters, cereal boxes and paper towel tubes. Help your child tape the pieces together and create something new out of cardboard and Styrofoam. Here’s a video that shows what happened when a teacher got rid of all of the toys in his classroom and replaced them with raw materials.
6. Box of toiletries
Since kids like to imitate their parents, collect some safe toiletries and allow some messy sensory play in the bathroom: scented lotion, aloe vera gel, baby powder, bandages and gauze, a bar of soap, shaving cream and an old towel to wipe it up when playtime is finished.
7. Box of office supplies
One year, my sister-in-law gave my older son a box of office supplies, all with the logo of his favorite office store. It took more than a year for him to work through the index cards, tape, pencils, highlighters, sticky notes, a ruler and much, much more.
8. Disco Ball
Anyone who has visited the Friendship Circle’s Snoezelen knows that the lights and disco balls can be relaxing and entertaining for kids with special needs. So a small, rotating, multi-color disco ball is a fun addition to the sensory environment at home.
9. Body Sox
A body sock is made of stretchy fabric and has an opening so that a person can step inside. Its purpose is to encourage body awareness and creative movement. For my family, it has been successful on both counts.
10. Exercise Machine
If I had a nickel for every time I had to drag my children away from the exercise machines at the rec center, I’d be able to buy my own elliptical trainer. A mini-trampoline, child-size treadmill or air walker can get a child’s attention while working toward physical therapy goals.
11. Musical wand
My son had a phobia of bells when he was a toddler, so toys like the musical wand helped him explore metallic sounds while feeling safe and secure in my arms. The musical wand can be a tool for pretend play as well, especially when paired with a book like “Alice the Fairy” by David Shannon.
12. Punching bag
Instead of trying to stop aggressive behavior cold turkey, which is usually impossible anyway, a punching bag redirects the aggression in an appropriate manner.
13. IKEA egg seat
This egg-shaped seat was designed for vestibular and proprioceptive sensory needs, plus it’s perfect for playing peek-a-boo.
14. Stomp Rocket
The Stomp Rocket helps work out aggressive energy while teaching a simple science lesson. My kids never get tired of it. Sometimes they make their own paper rockets, too.
The box said, “If you can hum, you can kazoo.” So I bought it for $2. It opens the door to oral-motor skills.
16. Bean bag toss
I have a child who has the urge to throw things ALL THE TIME. Most toys are not safe for him because of this. I decided that he may as well improve his aim if he’s going to throw things, and a bean bag toss is safer than a baseball at this point. The bean bag target can be varied – for example, he can throw the bean bags at cards with sight words or letters of the alphabet.
Attention-grabbing quiet toys
17. Marble run
I’ve never met a kid who didn’t love a marble run. These toys help with visual tracking, and the best part is the building process with kids. But they’re not safe for any child who puts toys in his or her mouth.
18. Folk toys
I remember playing with traditional wooden folk toys at my grandparents’ house when I was little. When I was brainstorming to find toys that would get my son’s attention, I went back to my roots. Toys like the Jacob’s Ladder and Falling Boy engaged my son and really made him think about how they work.
The magnets in this building set are encased in plastic, so there are no small pieces. The set encourages open-ended play, and it’s a good way to explore the sensory features of magnets. It’s one of the “quiet toys” that travels with us.
20. Magnetic gyro wheel
Kids can’t take their eyes off this toy, and it’s great for long road trips or kids who just want to watch something spin.
21. Whoopee cushion
Yes, it’s crude and vulgar. It’s also a quick way to get a speech-delayed kid to talk. You’ll probably get quite a bit of eye contact, too. At $1.75, it’s a lot less expensive than an hour of speech therapy!
If your child loves to spin things, get a globe. It will help with pre-literacy skills and open up new conversations about the world.
23. Hoberman sphere
I used the Hoberman sphere to teach my son the names for the colors and some simple opposite terms like “big” and “small,” “in” and “out.” It can be hung from the ceiling as a mobile that expands and contracts, but my kids prefer to hold it on the ground.
Introducing Pretend Play
24. Play silks or old scarves
Even children who don’t want to play dress-up like the texture of scarves and play silks. These are a good way to introduce open-ended play to kids who prefer to stick with a script.
25. Box of hats
Over the years I’ve collected all sorts of hats for my kids. Trying on different identities is the first step to pretend play.
Please share your child’s favorite toys in the comments below.