7 Ways To Help Your Child With Special Needs Overcome Perfectionism

Perfectionism and special needs

A friend asked me, “How can I help a perfectionist whose physical skills or sensory issues limit his abilities to perform as he wishes?” Perfectionism is not a term usually associated with disabilities.  But it can be a major obstacle to learning new developmental skills.  It’s confusing and demoralizing to struggle at something while everyone [...]

A Toy That Helps with Anxiety, Adjustment and Transition

Jasper Pals

Summer is winding down and that can only mean one thing – School. For many kids this is the most exciting time of year: waiting to get that card in the mail with the name of your teacher, going out to buy your school supplies, picking out what to wear on the first day, just [...]

Creating a Social Story

My friend just sent me a link to a great site for personalized social stories, sandbox-learning.com. Those of us with kids with special needs know all about social stories. We tell them, we write them to help ease our kids into a transition or when something might bring on some anxiety. It helps to set up some [...]

School & Anxiety: It’s not just for those with special needs

Progress Reports and IEPs

I homeschool one child. She is on the autism spectrum. Her neurotypically developing sibs go to a regular public school.” My son, a “regular school” goer, begins middle school next week. Today is middle school orientation. My homeschooler has a lot of anxiety. Anxiety can create the perfect storm for a melt down (what HANDLE calls [...]