The Parent Trap

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We all know what a hard job being a parent is. But what happens when we have one child with special needs and another without?  Are we treating them differently?  Do the same rules apply?  Are we making exceptions for the child without special needs that we otherwise may not if things were different?  I bet these [...]

Special Needs Parenting: How can I help if you don’t ask?

The other day it finally happened.  After years of begging, it just naturally came about, I think for a brief moment I made my friend’s life a wee bit easier.  She was just stopping by to pick something up and I asked if she was going to stay with her child for dinner?  She said [...]

If a parent is in denial should you intercede?

In Denial

Denial is not a river in Egypt! Are we in denial? Most of us know someone in denial about something; maybe it’s our neighbor, friend or family member.  But what about when it’s us?! What happens when we can’t face the truth in our own personal story? What about a parent who doesn’t seem willing to accept that there is [...]

Special Needs Parents: Do you really want my opinion?

10 Hurtful comments from family about my child with special needs

Speaking up…When people ask for your opinion should you give it? In my youth I often gave my opinion to people with unabashed confidence and charm. Let’s call those growing pains!  As I have grown up I have learned a valuable lesson, don’t offer advice unless it is asked for. However, more recently I have [...]

The Stigma of Special Education

The Stigma of Special Education

Are we past the Stigma with Special Education?  Why are people so afraid of “Special Ed.”?  In the  1950’s, 1960’s, 1970’s the “special” kids were sent to “special” schools or to the basement in regular schools.  This is where the stigma began for many people.  It came out of fear; fear of the unknown and [...]

Individualized Education Program: Getting the best for your child

9 steps to write an effective IEP for your child

What happens when we disagree? A look at parents and educators getting together at school meetings… Not often, but sometimes, when we gather a team together of parents and professionals to discuss the educational needs of a child, we don’t always agree.  You can be meeting at your child’s school to discuss any number of [...]

Why you may need an Advocate

What is an Advocate and why is having one important to me and my family?  The basic definition of an Advocate is someone who stands up in support of you, someone who fights for your rights!  Sounds pretty simple, however why you may need an advocate isn’t always simple. So how in the world does [...]